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“During times of standstill Victoria enabled people to connect,” says Vicky Cheng, Founder and CEO of Victoria the App, as she looks back on how her eponymous tech business inspired and connected locked-down creatives in times of peak pandemic blues.

Victoria the App is a league apart from other dating/networking apps in the market today. Designed with the purpose of building meaningful connections over forced, temporary flings, Victoria the App has not only succeeded in providing a sense of community during endless lockdown iterations, but also promises to be one of London’s buzziest virtual member’s clubs this year.

“My aim was to fuse virtual life with real life, taking the pressure off finding a place to meet that would suit both individuals,” Vicky said. “I feel that as much as technology has helped us find new people, we still need to keep a natural element in making connections.

We sit down with Vicky Cheng and discuss the early days of her tech start-up, how she has stood out as a woman in tech, and the merits of building meaningful connections and surrounding yourself with the right people to help you succeed.

She also gives some sound advice for future female tech entrepreneurs looking to shine in a male-dominated landscape, underscoring the value of self-belief and embracing all the things that make you ‘naturally original.’

Vicky says, “Step out of your comfort zone and never think that being a girl is a problem, and instead only as an advantage. As Beyonce once said, she never faced any glass ceiling. Being different is an advantage, it sets you apart and makes you naturally original.”

Tell us a little bit about yourself and your background, what inspired you to start Victoria the App?

I am originally from Hong Kong but made the UK my home when I was 17. I went to an all-girls school here, before starting my studies at London School of Economics. My family remained in Hong Kong, so I’ve always been keen to meet people that have the same mindset as me. People I could trust, otherwise it can quickly get lonely, especially in a big city like London.

I started Victoria right after graduation, as I found that all the other apps I was using to meet people, just gave me temporary connections, and the whole process felt a little forced. From this personal issue, Victoria was born. I wanted to create a platform that connects people through mutual interests, whilst also letting them meet in organic settings, through the app’s many events.

My aim was to fuse virtual life with real life, taking the pressure off finding a place to meet that would suit both individuals. I feel that as much as technology has helped us find new people, we still need to keep the spontaneity in making connections.

I wanted to offer a healthy alternative to the usual toxic space of dating app. Victoria is a community of high-quality people, that saves young entrepreneurs and creatives time when looking for a like-minded network.

Dating, networking, events – Victoria the App has everything! What were those early days of starting your business like?

The beginning was hard as I didn’t have a technical background and it was my first job after graduation. Funnily enough, I was setting up a networking business through networking, which highlights the importance of connections. Through constantly meeting people, I found so many talented individuals that helped me set up the technical side of the business. In those early days, I set up my website with the help of a supportive intern and even gave coding a try.

After a while I joined a coworking space where I met incredible, talented people who were all keen to connect. One of whom was an iOS freelancer who helped me get the app on the Appstore.

I made a lot of mistakes and changed my idea few times before getting to the final concept that we know today. I also realised that hiring the right people that work well together other was crucial for efficiency and productivity.

In the early days it was all about making mistakes and learning from them. You must be brave, have great passion for what you do and have the ability to persuade everyone around you that your idea will be successful. Don’t let other people project their fear on you and you’ll see you’re going into the right direction. As an entrepreneur the most important thing you must learn is how to change your opposers opinion.

What have been the biggest milestones so far?

One of the biggest milestones is hitting 1k members and launching abroad. I also hear people talk about Victoria, so word of mouth is working. Our stats also show that with have the highest 14 day retention rate amongst our competitors, which shows that our members enjoy being in the Victoria community.

Another great achievement was when our first A-list celebrity signed up to the platform, it really highlighted the impressive quality of our community.

Tech is traditionally a field dominated by men. How do you set yourself apart in the tech world as a woman?

Being a woman has never stopped me from going for anything, and I’ve never felt that I was overlooked or not respected. Because of the industry I’m in, a lot of my teammates are men, but that doesn’t mean they disrespect or patronise their female colleagues.

We also have a lot of tech savvy women in our team, for example my NED is a brilliant lady that came from Bumble and now helps me grow the Victoria community. When I make decisions about hiring, I am not biased on gender nor am specifically looking for a balance, it’s what they can do and know that counts.

Personally, I really feel that success tells more about a person rather than gender. I believe this is also why I’ve never felt disadvantaged as a woman. I always try to make my achievements speak for me and earn respect within this male dominated industry. Once the industry got word that I managed to receive funding, a lot of other companies were interested in me and wanted to learn more about Victoria.

What has been the biggest challenge you’ve faced as an entrepreneur so far?

With setting up a start-up everything is very challenging, but I think the biggest task is finding the most suitable people for my brand. People forget that it isn’t just about capabilities but also about how the person resonates with my vision and how they can fit into the team dynamics. Trust is also a major factor that goes into the hiring process, as my staff will get the most intimate insight into my ideas and strategy.

In the world of COVID-19, what role do you think online communities like Victoria the App can play in connecting people?

During the numerous lockdowns we had to endure, I felt Victoria kept a sense of normality for our members. We hosted a range of online events once a week, which all had fantastic turnup rates, during peak covid times we had around 80 attendees.

We partnered with great brands such as Wolf & Badger who sparked a conversation about body positivity. We also had entertaining cocktail making classes and a virtual visit to a classic car garage. For many it was the highlight of their week. Others felt it was very refreshing seeing new faces and not speak to the same ten people in their emotional support circle. During times of standstill Victoria enabled people to connect and have intriguing conversations.

Covid measures are gradually being eased so we can now commence with real events, bring Victoria to life, and show our members the real potential of our community.

What’s next for you? Any new exciting projects in the pipeline?

Our latest events were hosted in person for the first time. Most recently, we had a low-key get together at the exclusive private members club, Laylow. Joshua Kane, a quintessentially British tailor also collaborated with Victoria by hosting an ambassador dinner at another private members club, Home House. In July, I will be speaking on a panel, as part of our ‘Brands disrupting the norm’ Event at Home Grown, Home House’s sister club focussing on Entrepreneurs, Investors and Business Leaders.

Other than events, I will keep pushing Victoria to reach more people and receive greater resonance around the globe. One of our main objectives for 2021 is to increase growth amongst our community and receive more traction on the app. To achieve all this and unfold our greatness, we are constantly looking for investors and are planning to participate in fundraisers.

What advice do you have for women who would like to become GirlBosses like yourself?

Believe in yourself don’t care what other people say about you, if you really want to set up your own business and that is the only thing you want to do career wise, go for it and take the plunge!

Make sure you always ask for help, a start-up is about getting all the support you can and building useful connections. You need to find people that are willing to support you, mentor you and be friends with you throughout your journey from setting up your business to success.

Step out of your comfort zone and never think that being a girl is a problem, and instead view it only as an advantage.

As Beyonce once said, she never faced any glass ceiling. Being different is an advantage, it sets you apart and makes you naturally original.

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As the Olympic Games opens in Tokyo this summer, get a little taste of Japan here in the UK at The Prince Akatoki, the only 5-star Japanese hotel in London. Drawing inspiration from Asia, this is the perfect destination to relax and experience Japanese culture. House of Coco was invited to try the hotel’s Taste of Japan package, designed to create an authentic, memorable stay.

The experience starts as you check-in to one of the luxurious rooms, where you are welcomed with special Japanese inspired comforts including a traditional tea set so you can create your own tea ceremony and Yukata robe laid out on your bed, which add a little Asian fusion to your stay. All of the bedrooms are spacious however we were lucky enough to be upgraded to one of the suites. This zen sanctuary oozes style and elegance, combining neutral tones and minimalist lines, synonymous with Japanese interiors. A clean, fresh, light aesthetic is continued throughout the hotel. Soft white walls and natural wood run throughout the space. As well as a large bedroom and bathroom, the suite includes a kitchen and living space, ideal for relaxing in. The floor to ceiling windows in the bedroom floods the room with natural light. A stunning fusuma panel inspired wall is the focal point of the suite bringing an accent of colour to the room. There are touches of the Far East scattered all around the hotel including the beautiful Ikebana style floral displays.

After checking in we went for a stroll. The hotel is perfectly located for anyone who wants to explore London. Hyde Park is on your doorstep, and it is a short walk to Oxford Street and Bond Street.

After a couple of hours shopping and taking in the sights, we were ready to relax so went back to the hotel for a drink and dinner. It is wonderfully calm in The Prince Akatoki and you instantly feel a million miles away from the bustling London streets.

Superb sake is the name of the game at The Malt Bar and you can’t stay here without sampling the Japanese homegrown sake. Located on the ground floor of the hotel, this sophisticated, grown up bar has a serious selection of rare Japanese whiskies and spirits. Whisky fans can purchase their own premium bottle which will be housed in the bar’s secret vault that only you can access with your own key as and when you fancy a tipple. A full bloom cherry blossom tree has been installed in the corner and is the perfect backdrop to sip Sakura inspired cocktails. We sampled some of the extensive cocktail menu, I opted for a Momo Martini, a blend of Haku vodka, St. Germain, lychee water, peach honey and yuzu.

After drinks we head to TOKii restaurant for some authentic Japanese cuisine. The space is contemporary, dark timber joinery, screen divides and low lighting create an intimate atmosphere. The A La Carte menu has something for everyone with signature dishes, lighter bites and sides as well as a full menu of Nigiri, Sashimi and Sushi Roll options. The dishes served are like works of art and pretty enough to fill any Instagram feed. We opted for a bit of everything and were not disappointed, every dish was delicious. TOKii’s menu is modern, fresh and combines the best of Eastern and Western flavours. Highlights include the lobster croquettes, crisp and delicate with a perfectly balanced ponzu and mango salsa. The crispy pork belly was rich in flavour and the Cornish crab mayonnaise was not only an array of mouth popping tastes, but it was also beautifully presented, so much so I felt bad eating it. Our waitress insisted we try the wagyu beef with spicy ponzu sauce and I am so glad we did, it was ‘melt in your mouth’ tender and bursting with flavour. I would come back here just for the dining experience.

The Japanese pride themselves on service and the staff here are excellent, the attention to detail and level of hospitality was faultless throughout our stay. The hotel offers guests a chance to explore a culture rich in unique experiences set in a luxurious, relaxing space. The Prince Akatoki is a staycation that will whisk you to the other side of the world, without having to travel abroad.

Nightly rates at The Prince Akatoki London start from £229. A Taste of Japan Experience also includes a sushi masterclass and Ikebana flower arranging, which you can take home as a souvenir. To celebrate their post lockdown reopening, The Prince Akatoki is offering Sakura Season experiences, for more information and to book visit theprinceakatokilondon.com

What’s it like to go on tour with one of the world’s most famous musicians? Celebrated photographer Sharon Latham knows exactly what it’s like. Her new exhibition ‘A New World Blazing’ which presents an exclusive glimpse at life on the road with Noel Gallagher’s High Flying Birds launched online last night at the prestigious Red House Originals gallery.

Music Editor Emma Harrison spoke to Sharon to learn how she started out in photography, what does it take to create an amazing shot, having a chin wag with Hollywood actor Bradley Cooper and what it’s really like to work with Noel Gallagher.

House of Coco

How was last night’s launch of your new exhibition ‘A New World Blazing’ in London?

Sharon Latham

It was far better than I ever anticipated, but it’s always difficult hearing other people praising you. I find that quite tough going when they say ‘Oh, this is great!’ and you’re like, is it? Really? Oh!

House of Coco

Please don’t be so critical. You work is amazing and I am a huge fan of Noel Gallagher. I’ve seen the prints showcased in the exhibition and they are absolutely amazing. You’ve worked with Noel for several years now, how did this exhibition come about? And why was now the best time to do it?

Sharon Latham

Well, we organised to do it in 2020, but then the pandemic hit. So, we thought, ‘Oh, we’ll hold off and we’ll wait and see what happens’. We waited a year, then we waited a bit longer. And we thought well, rather than waiting even longer. We’ll put it all online. So, it’s all available online and it was wonderful to have Gibson involved who did the press launch with us, which was so much fun.

The original idea for the exhibition came from the fact that I’d done a book ‘Any Road Will Get Us There (If We Don’t Know Where We Are Going)’ with Noel in 2018. Noel said to me back in 2019, ‘Oh, we should do another book’ and I said to him ‘No, it’s too soon’. He asked me, ‘What do you want to do?’ I said, ‘let’s do an exhibition’. So that was that!

Then, very fortuitously, when I did put the book out in 2018, the wonderful Richard at Red House Gallery got in touch with me and said ‘If ever you decide to do an exhibition, I’d love to be involved’ and I’d saved his number and he stayed in touch. So, I thought, ‘You know what, let’s see what he’s all about’. Then I went up to Harrogate to meet him and he’s just a spectacularly clever, talented guy and that’s where it went from there. It’s taking three years to get to where it is now. It’s good. I’m happy with that!

House of Coco

Fantastic! You used to chat with Noel when you were the club photographer at Manchester City, and you and Noel had a chat about what you were intending to do next after leaving the club and you ended up going on tour with him. I love how you’re just making things happen. Can you tell me a bit more about that story?

Sharon Latham

Yeah! I’ve been blessed by the fact that I was employed as the first ever female Premier League club photographer and that was just the most epic 10 years of my life. I had so much fun! I’d already photographed Oasis back at Maine Road and the Etihad a long time before that. So, I’d met Noel and Liam before, but then when I started working at City, they were there every game.

As Noel was starting up the High Flying Birds, I’d see him at every game, so we were always bumping into each other. So, we became friends softly and quietly and then over the years, when we started winning trophies, I was sending him pictures of the trophies or pictures of him with players and things like that. Then when I said, ‘I’m leaving’, he replied, ‘But where will I get my pictures?!’ and I reassured him, ‘There will be a new photographer, it won’t be an issue’. Noel said, ‘Why are you leaving, you can’t leave!’ And I was like, ‘I’ve got other things to do. I don’t have to take pictures all the time!’ So, then he said, ‘What are you going to do though? To which I replied, ‘Well, it’s okay – I’ll come on tour with you! And he just went ‘Okay!’

So, that was it and in 2016, I covered a few of his festivals that he was doing when I first left City and that was that. I got called back to do most of the other tours, which has been great, immense, and hard work, but great fun!

House of Coco

How has it been working with Richard McTague at Red House Gallery and how did you enjoy working on your first major solo exhibition?

Sharon Latham

He’s the nicest man on the planet. I can’t sing his praises enough, he’s exceptional at what he does. None of this would have been made possible without him and his skills. He’s got a great team around him as well.

I did a couple of exhibitions at City, but they were all sort of in house and were mainly for community projects to raise money for community projects. This is my first major solo exhibition independently like this and it’s been scary, but amazingly great!

House of Coco

So, there’s 40 pieces in the exhibition including 12 of which are exclusive limited-edition prints that have been signed by yourself and Noel. Do you have a favourite piece from the exhibition? Or is it quite hard to kind of make that choice?

Sharon Latham

I do get asked that a lot, but I think I’ve got a couple of favourites. One of them being the ‘Home’ picture, which is the Manchester Arena picture, with Noel in the bottom left hand corner and then there’s the whole of the arena – it’s just an epic picture of the audience. That view isn’t seen all the time because people are always looking at the stage and looking at the artist.

It was the first time back there after the bombing at the Ariana Grande concert. So, it was quite emotional for me. I was sat on the stage and I remember panning around, taking the shot and actually getting quite upset. The atmosphere in there was incredible that night as well.

When I went look through the pictures, I spotted this one and it just emoted the situation. So, that’s one of my favourites and it’s also got my daughter in it as well!

There’s also a couple of really big acrylic ones that we’ve done that are like a metre high. They are silhouettes of Noel in orange and blue with his guitar up. You can’t see Noel, but you still know it’s him – it’s purely his silhouette and profile. They’re huge, but they’re so beautiful. I like those two as well. But, it’s difficult because there’s so many, but there are certain ones that do spark a little bit of emotion for me!

House of Coco

Was it quite hard to pick the 40 images for the exhibition as you must have hundreds and hundreds to choose from? What was that selection process like?

Sharon Latham

Yeah! Noel helped; he was involved in the process. I sent him a selection of images and he came back and said, ‘I liked these ones, but why don’t we put a few more of behind the scenes in there?’

He’s been involved with the selection process which is great. It makes it easier because sometimes you can sit there, and you just don’t know which one to pick. You get a bit blind to it.

House of Coco

That’s great. You have got a really lovely relationship with Noel and actually seem like similar characters. What’s he like to work with both on this particular project, the book, and as his photographer?

Sharon Latham

He’s a consummate professional. And I say this all the time, he really is a consummate professional. And you know, you can’t deceive him in any way, shape, or form. I’ve never had any issues with him. We just got on very, very well. I think the banter element works as well as I’m quite good at bantering, as is he. I find him one of the kindest and most interesting people I’ve ever met.

House of Coco

Yeah, he’s also incredibly smart. He’s sharp and totally on it!

Sharon Latham

He’s really very professional, very on the ball and doesn’t suffer fools gladly as well, which I’m one of those people. So yeah, you are right, there is a quite a few similarities! Plus, the Man City and the football element.

House of Coco

Going back to the football, when it comes to football and gig photography, it’s all live and it’s all about the action as well capturing those special moments. Does your approach to music and football photography differ?

Sharon Latham

Yeah, ultimately, if you think about capturing sports action itself, that’s fast moving, the light changes, even though you’re outside. With gigs, it’s better lighting, but a lot of the time, the light changes due to the movements.

The similarities are there, but then, by the same vein, it’s a different set of lenses completely when it comes to the technical side of it. When you look at the behind-the-scenes shots as well, I used to capture a lot of behind-the-scenes action at Man City, and that was purely for the fans.

I would think as a fan, what I would want to see and what would I want to know – what boots do they use and how do they put those boots on? I would do behind the scenes stuff with some of my favourite players. So, I really made sure that that was in my head before I went there and I also do the same with music.

I think as a fan I would want to know what Noel drank before he went on stage. And I’d want a picture of him warming up and all the rest of it. So, I always have that element of thought in the mind. And that’s where I’ll try and get unusual angles of the stage. I’ll be hidden behind the drum kit and Noel will turn around and forget sometimes that I am there and he will stick his tongue out!

House of Coco

Fantastic! I like all the candid shots when he’s a little bit unaware. You have been on several tours now. Has your approach to photography changed much and how do the earlier tours compare to the most recent NGHFB tours?

Sharon Latham

When you first start, you have to make sure that people learn to trust you and realise that you’re not there to take any bad pictures or anything. So, there’s a trust element early on, but once that trust is done, you’re settled in with the band and you’re settled in with people – you can just literally sit back and get on with what you’re doing. They don’t even question you being in certain situations and you are given Access All Areas which is great. I love how Noel’s music has changed.

I love the different development of the music as it’s gone on and I love the fact that Noel is expressing his music that way now as well. I enjoy all of it. I really do. I think you can see the progression of his music and it’s what he wants to do and the sheer fact that it’s what he wants to do and he’s enjoying it. I think that comes across clearly as well.

House of Coco

I agree. I have loved seeing Noel’s progression musically in the last 10 years or so. I have seen him live several times and it’s always such a great show! Do you have any standout memories from like either touring or other shoots?

Sharon Latham

There’s so many, so many! From rocking up to the Joshua Tree to shoot a video in the middle of LA, with trees growing underground upside down and not even knowing where we’re going to shoot to shooting stuff in a bizarre location in New Orleans that had like a spaceship-esque thing in the back garden, to shooting some gigs that were in the most beautiful venues and at the atmospheric gigs like the London Palladium was just an unreal gig!

And then you are walking into unexpected situations where you’ve got Bradley Cooper in the dressing room…

House of Coco

To be fair, it’s pretty unexpected to have Bradley Cooper in a dressing room!

Sharon Latham

You know, there was an after-show thing we did in LA and we were all in this big backstage dressing room area. Noel had invited a lot of people over and they have all come down, just chilled. I looked across the room and on this couch. And I just went ‘Oh, that guy’s the double of Bradley Cooper!’ and Noel went ‘That’s Bradders!’ And I was like, ‘Oh my God. I can’t stand and talk to Bradley Cooper!’

Bradley Cooper stood up and he was so lovely. And I turned around to Noel and I was like ‘What do I say?!’ And he (Bradley) was just a sweetie. And I spent 20 minutes talking to him!

I’ve worked with a lot of celebrities and you meet a lot of celebrities and go, ‘Oh, you’re not as tall as I thought!’ He is really tall, because I’m six foot one, but he was really tall!

House of Coco

It sounds like you’ve met some amazing people. Do you have anyone in particular that you would like to meet and work with?

Sharon Latham

Yeah! I’ve got a list. I’ve got a wish list that gets added to on a regular basis. I’ve got a lot of actors that I’d like to work with and shoot, I’ve got a project in mind that I’d like to take somewhere and get someone to help me get it funded which features a lot of actors in different situations, shall we say?

That’s something on the back burner I’m thinking about. But I’d love to shoot Mads Mikkelsen. I would absolutely, he’s just one of the most incredible characters, face wise. I think he’s got a beautiful face. I’d love to shoot him. Also, Elton John! Yeah! I was supposed to shoot him last year. I really missed out on that. I’d love to do some stuff with Paul McCartney as well. I could have done that at Glastonbury. There is there is a long list! Tom Hardy’s on there as well. I just think there’s a shoot I’ve got in mind for Tom Hardy that would blow people away if I can do it.

House of Coco
It’s so interesting how you can kind of look at a person and envisage a picture or set up in mind. How did you get into photography in the first place? What inspired you to pick up the camera?

Sharon Latham

My dad died when I was eight and he was an amateur photographer, and I inherited his camera. And that was that! I’ve never not taken pictures since. I’ve been taking photographs since I was eight years old. I had this old Russian camera, and it went everywhere with me. Then as I got older, and I’ve gone through life and had children, I have carried on with photography throughout my life.

My cameras have always been my source of comfort, my source of relaxation, my source of entertainment, my hobby! Never, ever in a million years would I believe I could ever make a living out of it or be sat here in a London Gibson’s studio with an exhibition of 40 photographs.

Being a professional photographer happened later in life, but I have been a photographer for all of my life.

House of Coco

That’s incredible. What do you think makes a great shot?

Sharon Latham

The thing is with a candid shot, I think it’s about capturing that moment, but with a set up shot it’s all about making sure that you have exactly in mind what you want from that image. A set up shot, and a candid shot are two completely different things. With a candid shot or a live shot, you’ve got to really be on your toes and make sure that you’re there at every point you can be.

I even have a set of images in my head before a gig and after a gig of what I want. Whether they happen and they don’t always, but I know how and what I want to get from them. That’s what I want them to be and so you have to sit down and wait and hope that it happens in front of you.

House of Coco

A lot of our readers are budding photographers, have you got any tips for them how they improve their skills please?

Sharon Latham

I get emails and messages about this on a daily basis. I absolutely love it when youngsters and the older generation get into photography and they ask, ‘What would you recommend?’ My biggest recommendation is to take photos! Learn how to take a photo with a camera that you’ve got, or even on your phones and then take lots of pictures of lots and lots of different things.

Over time, you’ll work out what you like to photograph because some people like photographing buildings, some people like photographing people. Some people like photographing landscapes, and landscapes are not for me. There’s such a massive realm of photography, you’ve got to hone in on what you like to do and the only way to do that is to literally go out and take shed loads of pictures.

For me, I think it’s 80% of your personality (and your own style) and then the other 20% is the technical knowledge. Don’t get me wrong, you need to know your camera, you need to know how to work a digital or a SLR camera, but there’s got to be you and your personality, and that will then come across any photographs.

House of Coco

What inspires you creatively?

Sharon Latham

For me, inspiration comes in different avenues. If you’ve been booked for a job to do something, you end up getting inspired by reading about that individual or finding out more about them. So, it depends on what I’m working on. I always love covering music stuff because it’s an eclectic mix of whatever you do. You could be doing the Arctic Monkeys on a Monday then doing Taylor Swift or Elton John. I like the eclectic-ness of it all, so inspiration comes from what I’m working on.

House of Coco

With the ongoing pandemic putting live shows on hold once again, this is clearly impacting on your work.

Sharon Latham

It’s been a horrendous 18 months because I lost all my work. I tend to go to a lot of the film festivals as well, and the red-carpet events, so they’ve all gone! I have also got a travel app – so that’s screwed as you would expect!

Yeah, it’s been really hard work. I’ve got a couple of things on the back burner and I if can get somebody to fund it, it would be absolutely spectacular. I’ve just got to keep plugging and doing what I do. My skills still there and they’re not going anywhere.

I have a couple of projects that I want to do. There’s one project for an exhibition that I’ve got in mind, which is the one featuring celebrities and then there’s another one I’ve got in mind that is all about raising awareness of male suicide.

House of Coco

In terms of the current exhibition, how long is it online for and do you have any other plans for it?

Sharon Latham

It’s online indefinitely at the moment and then we’ve got plans to physically take it out on the road again, when we can do so!

Noel’s latest album ‘Back The Way We Came: Vol. 1 (2011-2021)’ is out now.

Two new hotels to incorporate into your staycation itinerary this summer are the Graduate Cambridge and The Randolph Hotel. Both open July 1st 2021 and are part of the Graduate Hotels collection whose design is inspired by the unique heritage of university towns and cities. #TeamCoco got a sneak peak of these stylish abodes ahead of their opening next month.

The Graduate, Cambridge

Positioned along the idyllic banks of the River Cam, the Graduate Cambridge is surrounded by the University of Cambridge, within walking distance of several colleges, and a stone’s throw from the city’s best restaurants, bars and shops.

The hotel’s design incorporates the history of the city, making the river the focal point with various accessible views, especially in the lobby bar. Colour palettes, patterns and textures in the public areas reflect the green surroundings of fields and the glorious English countryside. With the punting boat rentals located just outside, the design brings local inspiration into the hotel, with punting boats incorporated in the bookshelves in the lobby, an installation by local craftsmen. The lobby is home to a hanging DNA installation to celebrate Rosalind Franklin, a pioneer in the development of DNA at the University of Cambridge. The guest rooms have an abundance of “Cambridge Blue”, with wallpaper replicating school gates, punting boats on either side of the bed, whimsical lamp shades in the shape of a penny coin and striking wood and leather desks to give a studious library atmosphere. The bathrooms have scenic pastoral wallpaper and mirrors in the shape of the university crest.

Garden House restaurant is nestled on the banks of the River Cam. Adam Wood, formerly of London’s award winning Perilla will lead the kitchen with his focus on open-flame cooking and seasonal East Anglian produce. Garden House will be a relaxed, and seasonable contemporary restaurant in one of Britain’s best loved and historic cities. Graduate Cambridge will comprise Garden House and Garden Bar, as well as a café and flexible social space. The Graduate is the perfect base for anyone looking to explore this vibrant city over the summer.

Nightly rates at Graduate Cambridge in a double room start from £189 inclusive of VAT. For more information please visit https://www.graduatehotels.com/cambridge/

The Randolph, Oxford

Located in the city’s cultural epicentre, The Randolph is situated within the University of Oxford and its iconic colleges, including Trinity and St. John’s. The hotel is on the doorstep of St. Giles Street and its bustling restaurants, bars, as well as the world-famous Radcliffe Camera and Ashmolean Museum. The design of the 151-room hotel takes inspiration from the university’s history, paying homage to its storied innovators and alumni.

Interior design details include bold hues, textural elements inspired by the region’s natural resources and local art which will tell the narratives of Oxford’s past. Previously the Macdonald Randolph Hotel, the property has been renovated and transformed throughout, all the guest rooms, the lobby and social spaces ooze a preppy college vibe. Guests can relax in the intimate snug, a cosy nook between restaurant and private dining with a bohemian spin on a traditional English library space. The Morse Bar is a nod to the iconic 90’s TV detective show that was filmed at the hotel and is the ideal place to kick back with a drink after a day discovering Oxford.

Nightly rates at Randolph Hotel in a double room start from £229 inclusive of VAT. For more information please visit https://www.graduatehotels.com/oxford-uk/

Hotels are no longer just a place to rest your head. They are an immersive lifestyle experience, somewhere to soak up local culture, reconnect with yourself and discover new things. Hotel brands are looking to provide their customers with a unique stay, a way to connect with them authentically and super-luxe brand Rosewood successfully does this, with their new in-residence programme.

Rosewood Hotels and Resorts is launching Rosewood PlaceMakers, an ambassador programme that brings together experts and innovators hailing from every corner of the world with deep roots in Rosewood’s locations. PlaceMakers span six pillars of expertise – Art & Entertainment, Style & Design, Food & Beverage, Health & Wellbeing, Family & Lifestyle, and Sustainability.

Rosewood London, the idyllic urban sanctuary in the heart of Holborn, welcomes wellness practitioners Boniface Verney-Carron and Catie Miller as the property’s inaugural Rosewood PlaceMakers. Boniface and Catie have developed unique activations and programming, digital journeys of discovery and an expertly curated destination guide, each of which is rooted in their niche area of expertise while simultaneously highlighting the essential elements and traits of the destination of London.

Boniface is an Osteopath, holistic coach and leading practitioner who runs the Verney-Carron Health Practice in Marylebone. In partnership with elite trainer and former dancer Catie Miller, Boniface is co-launching the Oona Series later this year – a community that thrives through pursuit of internal awareness and optimisation of self. Participants will receive support and guidance from experts as they lead in exercise, theory, workshops and dialogue. Oona will provide the tools to empower social, physical and mental wellbeing, to change the way people move through life.

As PlaceMakers at Rosewood London, Catie and Boniface will offer on-property multi-faceted programming including, but not limited to, an on-demand wellness portal in-room with meditation, tailored guides, workouts and bedtime stories; and a bespoke reset retreat incorporating a digital detox, personalised fitness sessions, a nutritional guide in collaboration with the hotel’s culinary team led by Executive Chef Simon Young and a natural wakeup call by a personal butler to name a few. Other PlaceMaker offerings in the works include wellness talks, podcasts and a limited edition Oona x Rosewood Fit Kit – with sustainable hand-weights, a foldable travel yoga mat, Epsom salt bath, calming pillow mist, CBD sleep tinctures and a charged amethyst crystal water bottle. There are also discussions about an Oona pop up boutique supplying curated sustainable gym wear and clean beauty products, a barre session with a takeaway smoothie truck on the renowned Rosewood London Courtyard and an illuminating panel talk with additional wellness experts for Global Wellness Day in June. Furthermore, Catie and Boniface created a bespoke Digital Destination Guides offering insider tips for navigating London, including famed hotspots from Farmacy to Gordon’s Wine Bar.

“Now more than ever before we are seeing an increased focus on the importance of holistic wellbeing in everyday life, with individuals at all stages of life looking to embark on an integrative health and wellness journey,” said Catie Miller, co-founder of Oona. “We’re proud to be teaming up with Rosewood London to bring a new type of wellness experience to the city that incorporates all the many layers of health and happiness from invigorating fitness classes to nourishing dining offerings to unique spa treatments,” added Boniface Verney-Carron, co-founder of Oona.

Rosewood London is one of the capital’s most sought after locations for wellness – with its Sense, A Rosewood Spa, the epitome of style and tranquillity. For more information on Rosewood’s PlaceMakers, please visit rosewoodhotels.com/placemakers.

He’s currently in a battle with Taylor Swift for the top selling album in the Official Irish Charts, but singer-songwriter Declan O’Rourke doesn’t need the luck of the Irish when it comes to his newly released album Arrivals which has received widespread critical acclaim.

Music Editor Emma Harrison spoke to Declan about Arrivals, the process of song writing, his forthcoming live stream at the Abbey Theatre in Dublin and what it was like to work with Paul Weller.

House of Coco

Congratulations on your new album Arrivals. I had the pleasure of listening to the album this morning and I absolutely loved it. I think every track is completely stand out. It feels like it’s your most emotionally revealing and personal album today. I don’t know if you would agree with that?

Declan O’ Rourke

I would definitely think it’s my most direct and personal record. The most emotional. Working with Paul (Weller) was great because even though I wrote the songs, he steered me towards those more personal songs. You know, because there were other ones in the mix too, there were other possibilities.

He very clearly steered me towards the more intimate personal stuff.

We had a conversation early on saying ‘Do you think we should include something in there that might get airplay’ and he was saying ‘Well, you know, fuck knows what gets on the radio anymore. Nobody knows. Just try and make a good record’.

It’s a great record and great records stand up to time and that was music to my ears, you know, because I don’t write with a commercial thing in mind. But you know, you tend to kind of sometimes look for ‘Okay, well, what’s the more commercial song I have listened to that, you know?’ So, it was great to just be allowed to be me and be totally free. Free to indulge, you know?

House of Coco

I know Paul has been a huge fan of yours for a very long time. He’s also cited your song ‘Galileo’ as a song he wishes he has written which must be such a huge compliment as he’s an incredible songwriter.

How did the collaboration come about? It’s such a big deal for both of you to work together (him as he has never produced anyone before) and for you to have him come in as a co producer, because you’ve always done this yourself.

Declan O’ Rourke

It was a huge deal – yeah! I guess a bit of a long story with how he how he came to be the guy. We had this friendship at a distance from a few years now coming up on 15 years or so. And really, just I’ve always found him to be such a sweetheart, you know, a really gentle person, very kind and very encouraging.

But you know, I never never thought of working with them in that way. Or I say anybody because I’ve never really worked with a producer before. But I was going up to making this record. I could feel the songs growing.

I’ve got a young family here and I was reaching a point where I was having a bit of a metamorphosis, personally in terms of my approach to my career and what I wanted out of my life, people say when you hit your 40s, like, hitting a plateau and I definitely identified with that, just, you know, you don’t really give so much of a shift what anyone else thinks, you know, what you want to get more, you want a bit more of a peaceful life. And I had, I’ve made something like four, four records, four years in a row and had self-managed for years and things like that.

But the decision was largely down to do with family and I kind of made this decision that I didn’t want to do that way anymore. So, it’s either got to be done properly and embrace the whole thing where I hand over the reins to other people who were specialists at their field.

In terms of a producer, it was with this bunch of songs, particularly having because I felt they were very stripped back and I personally felt it was going to be like an acoustic record, which I’d never done, even though it’s probably my most comfortable set of clothes on stage, I do a lot of shows on my own, and I’m really comfortable in that skin and you know, that’s the way I write to. With these songs coming that way, I thought I really want a second pair of ears. I could trust them to challenge me and reinforce me otherwise, it might be a kind of a lonely experience.

I wondered what it be like to be in the studio with Paul. I could learn so much. And then it kind of clicked, I was like, ‘Okay, well, maybe he’s the guy, you know’ and it’s the first time he has ever produced anyone.

House of Coco

That’s amazing – it’s a huge honour to you as well, because he has never produced anyone else and he’s so busy.

Declan O’ Rourke

Well, it was an absolute honour, you know, and I guess it was probably a risk for both of us because you don’t know what’s gonna happen. But that’s the beauty of, you know, I felt personally that I was rewarded 1000-fold for taking that risk and handing over the reins. Because, you know, I knew there was no half measures if you get Paul Weller on board, and he says, Yes, you’re not gonna start arguing with them and say, no, not the brevity there.

So, you accept whatever he has to say, you know, and once the decision was made, it was easy. It was great. And I just went with it. And it was the most liberating thing ever. It just was like, jump on and let somebody else drive and just look at the pictures at the windows.

House of Coco

You spent six days at Black Barn working with Paul? What is he like to work with? In terms did he give you a lot of free rein, or was he quite prescriptive in his approach?

Declan O’ Rourke

He was great to work with and again, going back to the risk because we’ve no idea what might happen, you know but he was obviously lovely. But, you know, you’re no idea what will happen, but it was instant chemistry which was fantastic. He was there for everything.

He had done his homework; he was really into it. But there was no way in the world it could be described as a ceremonial role. He was in the trenches with me all the way he was asking about lyrics and you know, and he listened to everything.

You know, he listened really intently before I arrived there, obviously, we had some opinions on things and decisions. When we recorded, he would sit there and he listened to me playing the songs and sometimes he’d say, ‘do you really need a little bit in there? Could you live with that?’ But he was gentle, you know. He’s been that guy

In any case, he was right, every time!

House of Coco

Would you say this is your favourite album that you’ve created to date?

Declan O’Rourke

Yeah, I actually love it. I love them all for different reasons. But each of the albums are moments in time and you know, you don’t regret anything. That’s the way you have to approach it.

Otherwise, you’d never let something go, you know you have to do the best you can at the time and move on.

I’m extremely proud of a lot of what I’ve done already, and I wouldn’t change it. But for where I am in my life right now.

Yes, it’s the best record I could have made, and I feel great about it.

House of Coco

Incredible! You mentioned that you have to have a lot of songs to bring to the table for this album.

Was it just a case of curating what you had and made your selection based on factors like raw emotion as opposed to commerciality?

How did you create what was going to end up on the album and there’s some incredible songs on there?

Declan O’Rourke

Thank you. I just write as a pastime all year round. I think over time in my career as a writer, from my early attempts from say in the late 90s, I would finish songs so that I could play gigs, I averaged 10 or 12 songs a year, I might start 20. But I see them, they’re like horses in a race and that I might have quite a few on the go. Then you’re just chipping at them. You know, if you get stuck on one, you just leave it. And sometimes it will come back to you. Because something will remind you and yeah, and yeah, I love it more, you know, in that way, it’s like a process of natural selection.

You’re not trying to force anything, you’re not trying to write something just for the sake of it and force it out, which tends to be crap, you know, what the good ones get finished. And the other ones, sometimes they just drift away, sometimes they come back years later, you never know. But they’re just kind of falling off the end of the conveyor belt.

Right now, I would normally be constantly touring, and I always love going on stage with a new song and playing it for the first time. It gives me both a thrill as well as a challenge.

So, you’re constantly trying to have new material, and this was just the collection of songs that was current and calling out to me over the last couple years.

Going back to what I was saying earlier, I really felt that these songs charted that metamorphosis I was talking about when I felt this shift in my life and how I wanted to approach my career. I was actually ready to quit if maybe couldn’t find the balance, and to live the life the way I wanted with my family, because that was by far the most important thing to my family is everything to me.

I thought I was having to maybe just let it go and I’ll give it my best. Maybe I’ll just do something else, you know? It’s really strange that as soon as I let go after 20 years, relentlessly driving, trying to, you know, build this career and when I let go, it kind of feels like it started to run away, you know? Yeah, I think it’s the most liberating thing you can do actually is kind of just saying, you know, what sod it! I’m letting it all go and what happens happens!

House of Coco

Well, I am really glad that you didn’t quit music as you are amazing. In terms of your approach to song writing. Is it the lyrics first, is it the melody or does it depend?

Declan O’Rourke

in my early career, I actually used to maybe start off with a plain little riff or a piece of music.

There are so many ways to do it, you know, I can only talk about my own methods. There’s no right or wrong way. But, you know, in my early attempts, again, I would almost have a stream of consciousness, and I just ranted all this stuff. And I was probably still maybe slightly angsty, coming out of my teens.

I really didn’t like what was coming out of it, I would finish the song. And then I would say, wonder ‘what that’s about?!’ I was maybe 19 or 20. I got annoyed with that and I just said I’m not gonna do this anymore. And I stopped, it was probably the last time I had a metamorphosis, artistically, you know, I stopped, and I said ‘I’m not going to write another song, until I can sit down, and I can write a song about something I want to write a song about’ – and I know what I’m doing.

I stopped writing for a year and then I came back. I wanted to be able to write something as well, that was possibly uplifting without being twee because I found that everything, I had been writing was more introspective and maybe a little bit angsty, you know, I wanted something that would make me feel good as well.

House of Coco

That’s actually a really mature approach for a 19-year-old!

Declan O’ Rourke

Yes, although probably I didn’t know what I was doing. You know, I knew I loved music. And I wanted to do it. I wanted to keep doing what I was doing. I didn’t have a career and at that point, so there was nothing to lose, I guess, you know, when I came back it kind of worked, and I approached it differently and I never stopped writing since.

It has to be triggered by something – an emotional feeling or something that really tickles your brain or something that really interests you. It will begin with a thought. I would just say to myself ‘what does that sound like?’ You know, it’s become a subconscious thing. I don’t think about it anymore. But what would that sound like?

Right at the beginning of the very process, you hear something, you just go with that and then the words and the music, you keep marrying them, bringing them together and I find it much easier to do it that way.

House of Coco

You’re an incredible storyteller. You have likened your new album Arrivals to a self-portrait – do you have a favourite song from the album material? What means the most to you? I am sure they all mean a lot to you in every way.

Declan O’Rourke

They do. It’s very hard to pick out one because it changes and when you’re writing each one specifically, they feel like your favourite thing, you know. But, you know, the studio has a very interesting effect on songs. Because sometimes you go in with you think are the best songs or are the leading songs, there can be a shift, sometimes depending on what happens in the studio.

There was this one song, and I hadn’t paid too much attention to it. I had the melody, and I haven’t played it out loud. In fact, I’d sang it on stage twice, but without music. We were in the studio and Paul, Ben and I sat down for about an hour just tinkering with it. Paul was on the piano and I’d never thought about having piano on it and I had a rough idea for drums, and it just blossomed out of nowhere. Then there were just these lovely textures and with this song, there was less of me in it, and it was more of a joint effort. It was more of a surprise to me than the ones that I knew already. That in itself wouldn’t make it a better song, but I just love where it landed.

House of Coco

One of my favourite songs of your album is ‘Andy sells Coke’ as I understand it it’s about someone who has a bit of a rude awakening and sees things they don’t necessarily want to see.

Can you tell me a bit more about that?

Declan O’Rouke

The song is about a reaction to being at a party and it’s an eye-opening reaction to being exposed to a lifestyle that I don’t engage with. It’s essentially a few steps further back along the train than I currently am in my life and I was never somebody who dabbled with coke or anything like that. It’s a horrible, fucking horrible drug and I had that written by the time I got home the next day. I had come up to the city, spend the night and by the time I got home, it was written.

It was just kind of a cathartic reaction, you know?

House of Coco

It’s a fantastic song. You’re going to be doing a live gig on April 14, which is a week after the album is out. This was filmed at the Abbey Theatre in Dublin.

Declan O’Rourke

Yes! It’s our National Theatre, beautiful place, great history and I was thrilled – thrilled to play a gig on a stage with musicians. It was really, really enjoyable. It really surprised me that I remembered how to do it. My last gig had been in 2019 actually so I had a little break.

You know, in the lead up to this record, my new manager, and I decided, you know, just you should disappear for a little while. And suited me because of the new me wanted to just spend time with family and then lock down kicked in. So, it became an extended longer break and I mean, personally, I’ve thrived on it. I’ve actually loved it creatively.

My whole family got COVID over Christmas and we got through really, really well all things considered, you know.

House of Coco

I am so glad they are all doing much better Declan.

With regards to the live gig, can you tell me a bit more about what to expect?

You have mentioned that you have got some special guests…I don’t know if you can tell me a bit more about that?

Declan O’Rourke

I can’t really Emma! All I can say is that I know that you’re gonna enjoy it. I’m excited! What I can tell you is that you’re gonna enjoy my special guests! You know it was a real treat, to be able to play again.

House of Coco

Do you have plans to tour the album?

Declan O’ Rourke

We are trying to put some dates in. It’s not our first attempt, of course, you know but, you know, everybody’s safety has been the top priorities. We are trying to put dates in for the UK and Ireland. I don’t know exactly when they’ll happen. But we will. You know, it’s gonna happen at some stage whenever it can happen.

House of Coco

In terms of what inspires you musically. I know you’ve referenced people like Bob Dylan or Joni Mitchell who has been huge influence on you.

Who else has inspired you musically so far?

Declan O’ Rourke

Well, you said Joni Mitchell who has certainly been a huge influence. Certainly, Neil Young. You know, some of the friends I made along the way kind of influenced me there has been some great Irish music like the Dubliners and Paul Brady – this is all amazing music that I was brought up. My parents were very eclectic. When I was growing up, they listen to anything from Motown to Bob Marley.

Dire Straits, Irving Berlin, Sinatra – I love the song writing standard of that era, you know, and they have all had a big influence on my writing. I love Hendrix and I love the Beatles. You know it’s just great music from all different genres.

House of Coco

You started your career in Dublin doing open mic nights. Going back even further you were in Australia, which is when you picked up a guitar for the first time. Please can you tell me a bit more about your journey into music for the people who perhaps don’t know, your background?

Declan O’Rourke

Sure, so I was raised in Dublin and we’d always get the extended family together. After dinner we would do a sing song, and the kids would be encouraged to do something and later on the grownups would have theirs, and it was just really, really cool. You know, even now we have them, we have these family gatherings.

It was a great – almost like an early school or something because it was where we were handed the gift or passed the torch or whatever, we would just love music and performance. It would cut out any nerves very quickly, very early on.

I picked up the guitar while I was there was 14 in Australia and came back to Ireland not long afterwards and started finding like-minded individuals and just playing music all the time. I kind of started writing songs by accident.

House of Coco

You’ve got one of the most distinctive voices I think in the whole music industry.

How important do you think it is to be so distinctive that when you can hear two notes from a song on the radio and it’s instantly recognisable as you?

Declan O’ Rourke

Well, thank you so much. I wish everybody felt the same. It’s a lovely compliment. I just try and use what I have. I don’t think I’m the greatest singer ever, but I just like using it as a bit of an emotional paintbrush or something.

House of Coco

You once famously described the music industry as a scary place quite a few years ago, how you think about the music industry now? And do you feel like you’re kind of, you know, less intimidated by it. Because you’ve just always relaxed into yourself. You’ve had this metamorphosis and your kind of just doing your own thing?

Declan O’ Rourke

Yeah, absolutely. I mean I think, you know, before I got into music, I thought of the music business as a scary place and full of stereotypical evil characters and whatever. It didn’t turn out to be that you know but it turned out to be a complex business.

There are some very hard decisions to be made and sometimes you fall on either side of something and it’s a capitalist world, and the music industry is based on that model. And, you know, that’s not ideal when it comes to arts, but it’s how it interacts with the world and people and it’s how we get people.

I think I did have some experiences, in say, the late noughties that made me not think of it as scary anymore at that point one side, but I didn’t like it and I was angry. I became kind firstly protective and self-controlling of how I put my music out there.

I tried that for a number of years and watched how it worked on that, you know, I didn’t stop creating. I still kept putting out records that I felt like I was putting everything into them. And that I was kind of making the same level of art whether it was for 10 people or a million people. You know, it didn’t matter but the model was unsustainable, the way I was doing it.

You need to get your music to people, in order for it to be sustainable, and to keep creating it at a certain level, to certain standards and to have some kind of a balanced life, which, which I’ve talked about already. And so, all of those things conspired to make me decide that over either embrace it like a big boy or just maybe not do it at all, as we’ve discussed. I was very happy to accept whatever comes this time around. So, I found some brilliant people to work with.

Everybody that I’ve been working with so far, even in the in the record label have been fantastic. You know, it’s been a really pleasant experience. I’m so happy that I made that decision. Hopefully it continues to do well, and I can get my music out there, which is the name of the game.

House of Coco

What would you say is the biggest lesson that you’ve learned in your years of being in the music industry so far?

Declan O’ Rourke

I think the biggest lesson I’ve learned is the recent one is that to let go. You know, that was a very important personal and spiritual lesson and everything on many levels, but it probably has been the one to most benefit my career so far. I mean, it’s still to be written and it’s still unfolding, but it certainly feels like it was a fundamentally very important decision.

I don’t know if I’d have made it earlier. would have anything changed? I don’t know. I just wasn’t ready to do that at that time. So, it feels like the right thing now.

I’m just very happy that I came to this point, for everything a reason.

House of Coco

I think everything happens at the right time. In the right situation, for sure. So, what is next for you?

Declan O’ Rourke

I’m going to continue to evolve as an artist and to create and to make things that reflect what I’m feeling and hope that it finds a home and people and it continues to resonate with people.

Declan’s latest album Arrivals is out right now and tickets for his live streamed show are available now.

“And Just Like That…” the next chapter of Sex and the City is on the horizon. Did anyone else feel like the city of New York was always the fifth character in [most of] our beloved series? Although the girls did head off to Mexico and Abu Dhabi in the films, it’s hard to imagine them – with their designer bags, bustling lives, and magenta Cosmopolitan cocktails in hand, living anywhere else.

Whether it was the fictional ‘Raw’ or very much so real and iconic Tao restaurant, the cast frequented some of the most see-and-be-seen restaurants, bars, and shopping destinations New York City has to offer. Some places were included in the series because of their stature in the New York City scene, while others soon became hot spots soon after the episode in which they were included aired.

Now, whether you’re excited about the series reboot or you can’t bear the city without Samantha, it’s certainly got us in the mood to plan a trip to the glittering metropolis and walk in the Manolos of our favourite girls.

Explore the Best Bits of the Big Apple with a Real New Yorker

We’re not exactly sure when we will be able to travel again but we’re certainly not against planning a prospective trip with the girls for a wild weekend away in New York City.

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The Top Cocktail Bars in New York City for that Perfect Cosmo

If you’re a Sex and the City fan, do you drink any cocktail that isn’t a Cosmopolitan? With the series reboot soon to hit our screens, free online recommendations and social travel app TWISPER is providing its community’s favourite cocktail bars in the Big Apple where you just might find Carrie and the girls enjoying tipples and reminiscing (in extreme detail) over their latest romantic pursuits… Of course, we’d have to wait a little longer before being able to indulge in one but it’s never a bad thing to plan.

Apotheke

Recognised as one of the “best speakeasies in the US” by Architectural Digest, Apotheke is known for having bartenders at the top of their game. The bar is hard to find, which adds to its air of exclusivity – and the drinks menu is truly world class, having been inspired by the European history of apothecary. Apotheke combines subtle luxury with quirky touches and is a favourite NYC spot among the TWISPER community.

the blond

Located in exclusive Howard Street, the blond provides guests with a relaxing yet stylish ambience with its dark woods, subdued colours, low lighting and gold accents. Its rotating cocktail lists are tailored to celebrate seasonal flavours and the bar also offers light bar-bites to accompany its drinks menu. Think of it as the spot Carrie and co. would head to post-event to mingle and relax.

NoMad Bar

Award-winning Bar Director Leo Robitschek has created a drinks programme with something for all tastes at NoMad Bar. With the list including cocktails crafted with rare spirits, as well as a range of extensive sought-after beers and wines, this bar is a favourite among the TWISPER community and located close to the famous Empire State Building so can easily be your post night-view watering hole.

Dicover Trendy New Districts That Might Feature in the Reboot

The city is the scene for adventures – if you’re looking to follow in the footsteps of the Carrie, Charlotte, Miranda and Samantha and although a lot has changed since the first episode aired (including a key character, sob), it’s possible to get an idea of the life they’d lead in modern-day Manhattan.

HolidayPirates recommends the characters move on from only Cosmos and sip their way through the cocktail list at the likes of Le Bain and Boom Boom Room at The Standard, perfectly situated on the High Line for the new revival. The trendy Meatpacking district would be their new stomping ground – an interesting notion, considering it was only just beginning to emerge as an up and coming spot in teh series.

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Take a ferry to idyllic Shelter Island and then onto the North Fork with its small towns, vineyards and twenty-nine wineries to explore. Raise a toast to the next instalment of Sex and the City – long may the girl power, friendship and fabulous outfits continue!

Enjoy your fully customisable Hamptons & Long Island Wineries Private Tour, priced at £688 per tour (for up to six people).

It’s nearly the new year, and with it the promise of a fresh start, with time to get working on resolutions.

And one of those resolutions could be spending a little less time on social media and embracing a digital detox. Let’s face it, we’ve all been that person, attempting an early night and still up at two in the morning scrolling Insta feeds.

And your detox doesn’t have to be forever, you could start off with just a day, then make it two? You don’t even have to cut out digital bits ‘n’ bobs altogether, just find a way to decrease your screen time.

Whatever you choose, there are various ways to shake off the digital detox cobwebs. Here’s how…

Tips for a digital detox

Tanya Goodin, founder of digital wellbeing movement Time To Log Off and host of the ‘It’s Complicated’ podcast, knows her stuff when it comes to the digital detox. Her top tips are…

Don’t beat yourself up

Getting a good understanding of how most of the tech we’re using is deliberately designed to hook us, is one of the first steps in beginning to get it under control.

Persuasive Tech was designed in a lab in Stanford University in the US in qssthe 1990s. Behavioural scientists and attention. engineers studied what tricks and tools could be developed on screens to keep us clicking, tapping and scrolling on our computers for longer. These techniques have been honed and developed further for smartphones by the billion-dollar software industry in Silicon Valley. Push notifications, auto-play next, the ‘like’ button – these were all designed to give us little bursts of dopamine (the feel-good brain chemical) and keep us on our screens for longer.

So, don’t waste any time beating yourself up when you find it hard to put your phone down. It’s designed to be addictive.

Set boundaries

The problem with the digital world and tech is not that we’re using it, it’s that we’re using if for too long.

In many cases we’re neglecting important aspects of our lives that we could be putting our time and attention into. Setting clear boundaries around your screen use is incredibly powerful. Simply having a vague intention to not spend too much time on your phone won’t cut it. You need hard and fast rules that are easy to implement to keep that compulsive phone-checking in check.

There are two types of boundaries that I find work really well for most people

Boundaries around time: Set specific times of the day or week where you won’t be on your phone. They could be something like ‘I never check my phone until I’ve eaten breakfast’ ‘Sundays are screen-free’ or ‘after 8pm I log-off work email’.

Boundaries around places: Agreeingphysicalplaces where your phone absolutely doesn’t belong are a deceptively simple way of cutting back on idle screen scrolling. Meal tables and in the bedroom overnight are favourite locations to ban phones from. Loos and bathrooms are particularly effective too. Be creative!

Deal with distractions

Because of those sophisticated persuasive tech techniques, our smartphones have the power to distract us even when they’re just in the same room as us. They can even reduce our IQ as our dopamine-hooked brain struggles to ignore them. One study at Chicago University found that, even if our smartphone is face down and switched off on our desk, its presence reduces our IQ by about 10 points. A disaster if you’re trying to produce a piece of work or concentrate on something important.

You can switch off notifications, you can turn the screen to greyscale, or you can even do something complicated with your app organisation, but really the single most effective thing is to put your phone in another room from you. And don’t think hiding it in your bag or drawer is just as good. Those researchers at Chicago found that even if you can’t see it, if you know it’s in the same room as you, its presence still reduces your IQ.

Use tech mindfully and meaningfully

Keeping an eye on mindless screen use is one aspect of living healthily with tech. Making every moment that you spend on a screen count is equally powerful. One study found that those who actively engaged on social media, through commenting and liking, were happier than those who just passively scrolled through feeds without joining in.

There’s no doubt that too much time on screens can leave us feeling unhappy so making sure your use is mindful is your best tool for maximising the benefits of the digital world. Set a clear intention for how your time on screens will benefit your relationships, your work, or the things that are important to you. Instead of being a human lab rat in the great Silicon Valley experiment, you’ll be making tech work for you.

Miami is a paradise of interconnected oceanfront cities offering a rich tapestry of cultures living in harmony all in one place. I had the pleasure of living there a few years back and I refer to that time in my life with fondness, as ‘The Miami Years.’

If you’ve visited Miami over the last few years, you’ll know it as a city with many faces which has greatly changed over the last ten years. The huge influx of five-star hotels and branded luxury apartments and an abundance of art events – including the infamous Art Basel – fused with different cultures and a huge influx of Oligarchs, has helped transform the Magic City.

A Florida native – I was a beach babe born in beautiful Fort Lauderdale – it was during my time there that I reconnected with my childhood friend (and future roommate), Jenny Abrams. The Manchester-born and now internationally recognised lifestyle photographer, took me under her wing and showed me the ropes to beachside living. From the best restaurants and nightspots to the best art shows and gigs, to secluded beaches, it’s safe to say, we were never short of amazing experiences. At the time, she was moving up the ranks as one of Miami’s most well-known lifestyle photographers. She continues to work with some of the biggest brands in the world, including Google, Ted Baker, Soho House, Adidas, and Mercedes, to name a few. Her work has also been published in The Guardian, Vice, and Travel + Leisure and she has amassed an Insta following of over 149k.

As the city continues to change and evolve, I caught up with my longtime friend to find the inside scoop on her Miami highlights and where House of Coco readers should go for under-the-radar gems when we can travel there again. And as the evenings draw closer and the temperature continues to drop, there is no better time to reminisce and dream of my life in the city where the heat is always well and truly on.

Favourite breakfast spot: I could easily mention some of the newer and trendier of my favourite spots, like All Day Cafe, or the classic, Zak the Baker, but I am going to have to choose Enriquetas. At Enriquetas you can get a traditional (and massive) plate of Cuban food, complete with tostada (Cuban toast w/ butter) and the classic, cafe con leche (Cuban coffee with milk). This tiny hole-in-the-wall has survived decades of gentrification – including a fire! – and a whole bunch of crazy happenings on its street corner. They also have the best sweet cheese pastries (pastelito de queso) in Miami. Que rico!

Best bar: There are so many great places to grab a drink in Miami but since I moved away from the heart of the city to a cute little beach neighborhood in North Beach (15mins drive from South Beach), I’ve been digging the dive bars around my way. My favorite is a dingy old bar called On The Rocks. Not the typical Miami Beach crowd, it’s a mix of neighborhood locals and biker boys. But when I’m looking for something a little less gritty and a little more Miami, a solid-go-to is Broken Shaker at The Freehand.

Virtual escapism until we can be there in the flesh @JennyAbrams

Miami’s most photogenic spot: A view of the city and Biscayne Bay but from West Avenue on South Beach. Here you can get a sunset city view over the water.

What made me want to be a photographer: I’ve been obsessed with documenting my life since I was a young girl. Disposable cameras have always been my jam. But in 2007, a friend of mine had a DSLR camera that I couldn’t put down. It was then that I decided to learn the technicalities of the camera. From that point on, it became even more than an obsession. The camera became an extension of my right hand and still is!

Favourite club or place for live music: Wish I could say The Electric Pickle, which was the best place to find a good boogie but unfortunately Miami has lost some of its staple dance spots as rent has just skyrocketed in developing neighborhoods. RIP The Pickle and Purdy Lounge! However, we do have some great new places like Las Rosas – I love it there! Another consistent spot (for live bands) is Lagniappe – a wine and cheese venue with a cosy vibe.

Favourite art event: Art Basel Main Fair during Art Week. There are so many events that happen during this time, it’s always really hard to keep up with everything that’s going on. Most people think Art Basel is all over Miami, but the official fair is held at the Miami Beach Convention Center. I always tell people that if they are interested in seeing some proper art, invest in a ticket to the main fair. It’s a collection of the most prestigious galleries in the world, so you really can’t go wrong. I also love the Bill Brady Gallery which is on 92 NW Street.

Favourite place for dinner: Sabor de Peru. Best mom and pop Peruvian, it never fails! I also love Katana – kaiten style (conveyor belt) sushi – in North Beach.

How has Miami evolved since you moved there? Like CRAZY. I moved here a long time ago before Wynwood (Miami’s version of Shoreditch) was even a thing. Way before we had globally recognized chefs cooking in every restaurant; before Little Havana was a cool place to open a business. I remember riding my bike around the city and Art District for many years. Now when I go to Wynwood, I barely recognize anything! It’s been a rapid cultural evolution here and although I miss a more quiet and untouched Miami, I really love the evolution of our city. We are finally being taken seriously on all fronts: food, entertainment, art, architecture and even sport! Inter Miami FC just began their first season, and it’s huge! Miami is booming.

Follow Jenny’s vibrant works on @JennyAbrams or www.JennyAbrams.com

The good life @JennyAbrams

With lockdown in full swing, we certainly don’t need an excuse to try out new cocktail recipes or have a themed evening filled with delicious food. Why not recreate American Thanksgiving at home, held on the fourth Thursday of November every year. From pumpkin pies, puzzles and pre-dinner cocktails, we have rounded up the best ways to celebrate, stateside style, to suit every type of reveller. Thank us later.

Mix up some American-inspired drinks

Lift the spirits this lockdown with some classic USA tipples, inspired by the land of the free. Dazzle with creative cocktail recipes named after famous places in America or simply ‘pimp your prosecco’ with delicious flavours loved by our friends across the Atlantic. While the food and drink focused holiday may be observed primarily in the USA, there’s no reason why we can’t join in the fun too!

  • Make the ultimate American cocktail, the Manhattan, using J&B Rare Scotch blended whisky with sweet vermouth, dry vermouth, a dash of angostura bitters and a maraschino cherry to garnish. Following the end of Prohibition in the USA, J&B Rare was created to appeal to the American palate, hitting shelves in 1933 – it is the perfect drink to enjoy in the secrecy of your own home
  • Another classic stateside cocktail is the Long Island Iced Tea, made with five different ingredients. It is a trickier creation to make on your own but the team at Bottle Bar and Shop are a step ahead and have one ready-made and delicious. Simply pour and top up with cola
  • Apple pie is a longstanding symbol of America. In the nineteenth and twentieth centuries, apple pie became a symbol of American influence and prosperity as well as national pride. Zymurgorium My My Apple Pie Gin Liqueur is the perfect autumn accompaniment to any fizz that you have available – it is also utterly fantastic on its own. Be whisked away to a Midwestern home with fresh apple pie ready and wafting flavours of spiced pastry and warm caramelised fruits
  • What could be more American than serving a cocktail that was declared the official drink of the nation’s capital, Washington DC. The Rickey is gin-based and even has a plaque dedicated to it at the JW Marriott Washington on Pennsylvania Avenue, which stands on the original site of the Shoomaker’s Bar where the cocktail was first created. Simply fill a highball glass with ice, add two ounces of gin and half an ounce of lime juice, top up with soda water and garnish with lime wheels
  • The aptly-named Wild Turkey 101 Bourbon creates the perfect Old-Fashioned cocktail. The distillery is located in Kentucky, situated on a deep limestone shelf on the Kentucky River and makes for an explosion of vanilla and caramel flavours that progress to bitter orange. This is the perfect premium drink to wash down any Thanksgiving meal

Create a Thanksgiving feast

The first Thanksgiving meal, according to lore, took place in 1621, where a feast of venison, lobster, clams, berries, fruit, pumpkin and squash was shared. Nowadays, Turkey is a key component with potatoes in abundance and an array of side dishes piled onto plates, with families coming together to share a feast only comparable to Christmas in terms of extravagance. A plethora of well-known restaurants have put on new and exciting Thanksgiving menus year on year from barbecue favourites to fine-dining spots offering sharing menus. Dining out is currently not on the cards, but fear not, we have gathered together different ways to indulge without having to venture too far away.

  • Whole Foods Market is pulling out all the stops this year with delicious Thanksgiving offerings, making it easy to experience a traditional Turkey dinner on the 26th November. Pick up dinner for one or for four people to share – depending on the size of your bubble! The larger meal includes classic Thanksgiving fare: butternut squash with onion and cranberries as well as tasty cranberry sauce. Available to order and pick up in-store throughout November from one of the seven London stores, Whole Foods Market is the one-stop-shop for all things Thanksgiving this year. Showcasing its American roots, it also offers non-alcoholic apple cider, pure pumpkin puree and gluten-free cornbread baking mix to make the celebration a little more authentic and special
  • With World Vegan Month in full swing, sample the deliciously seasonal ‘Gobble Gobble’ lemon-caper seitan burger with sauteed kale, rosemary gravy, harvest stuffing, fresh cranberry sauce with a potato bun from By Chloe. Founded in New York, By Chloe quickly became a household name before opening in the UK in 2017. It now has three eateries across London: Covent Garden, Oxford circus, and Tower Bridge and offers a 100% vegan and plant-based menu
  • If you aren’t ready just yet to deck the halls and whip up a Thanksgiving turkey with Christmas just around the corner, why not recreate a simple yet classic American staple – the loaded hot dog. Order the delicious chilli from new kids on the block, Stocked, who provide delicious portionable frozen food direct to your door. The chilli, along with some other easy ingredients that wouldn’t look out of place stateside, creates The Cherry Dog. Stocked have even put together their own recipe for you to follow along
  • For dessert, look no further than Jack and Beyond, the online cake shop offering home delivery with a bakery and café on Fulham Road. Indulge in homemade American classics including a delicious Pumpkin or Pecan pie. Jack and Beyond also offer peanut butter and chocolate pies and celebrity-inspired treats featuring the Trump and the Barack cookie

Take a moment to reflect

Thanksgiving in America is all about loved ones coming together, taking a moment to pause and to give thanks for the year. Thanksgiving is the start of the festive season, with presents left for Christmas Day. It is more important than ever to take time to switch off from life’s everyday pressures and to reconnect with your nearest and dearest. What better than games or puzzles to enjoy a minute of calm, away from screens, during lockdown.

Piecemeal Puzzles is a new, female-founded, contemporary jigsaw puzzle brand. Carefully curated to evoke the sentiment of the jigsaw design, each puzzle has its own epic Spotify playlist, which is found by scanning a unique code on the back of each box. The 500 piece jigsaw puzzle named California Nights is part of the debut collection and is the perfect accompaniment to any Thanksgiving celebration, instantly transporting you to the Sunshine State as well as to moments of zen.

Set the scene

Put the fire on, get cosy and tuck into a great movie – The Holiday anyone? CK creations candles are hand-poured in London and have been tried and tested so that each scent is just right. Started by two sisters in the first lockdown, this small business helps customers turn their homes into a sweet-smelling haven. The candles are also fantastic presents and can come gift wrapped. Choose from gorgeous scents that are great for a Thanksgiving celebration and create the perfect ambience, including cinnamon & orange, gingerbread house, hot apple pie and mulled wine.

Give thanks

With the theme of this time of year being focused on gratitude and giving thanks, now is the perfect time to write cards to loved ones that you are not able to see face to face, to express how grateful you are for them. There is nothing more personal and thoughtful than a handwritten note – zoom, be gone! The Martha Brooke Personalised Bee Notecards Gift Set is ideal for sending to friends and family to say thank you, to plan an exciting activity in the future or simply as a brilliant gift. The products are beautifully designed to uplift and inspire and come in an exquisite array of colours and patterns, just what is needed in 2020. Being grateful never goes out of style.